February 25th, 2010: "What to do?"

It has been a crazy few months. The joy of being married to the man of my dreams as been nothing less than simply delightful, and an amazing blessing from GOD. But, I must say, life does go on. No matter what you do, life is the back bone and no one can stop it.

I have been confronted with situations that I have handled in many different way. My theory is, different situations cause handling in different ways. I found that my mind set on a particular situation was justified. I was trapped in a way of thinking, and could not see another option. But then I realized that no natter what happens in our lives, GOD's desire is for us to do what is right in accordance to HIM. I saw my mistake and had a new mind-set from there on out.

Each one of us are on an individual walk with GOD. HIS standards and truth are the same for each one of us, but the journey we take is different. It is important that we remember the lessons that GOD reveals to us. We must take them and pay it forward so that we may walk further on our path with CHRIST.

There are a lot of things going on in my life right now, but through it all I will continue to trust in the LORD and learn as much as I can.

MR

February 11th, 2010: "Faith"

I have been gathering my thoughts as to what to bog about next. It has been a few weeks and I don't have anything solid to blog about today. So, I decided to blog a few things that have been running through my mind lately.

Faith has played a key role in my life lately. Faith that GOD has a direct plan for your life no matter what you may think. I want something bad. I have managed to line all my ducks in a row and done everything I know to prepare for this possible opportunity. In my mind, things would be perfect if this certain thing pans out. But, even though I may feel that way, I have to remember that God has me on a path and that path may not lead to that opportunity. Its a bitter pill to swallow, but God is in control and whether we are okay with it or not, God has the ultimate say. We all know we cant stop that. :::laughs:::

My mom told me that "If this doesn't work out, then another thing will", that has stuck with me and I have to realize that GOD knows what I need. He wants to give us everything we want. Because we, as humans, can not even grasp his knowledge or concept of time, we just have to have Faith that our GOD will lead us the right way. He will because he always does. So, I will sit and have faith, waiting on my GOD.

It is almost Valentine's Day and I must say that I have never had a Valentine. I am very happy to say that my husband will be my first Valentine. I am so blessed to have this man in my life. GOD paired us together in the most perfect way. I never knew why I had to wait so long to find my soul mate but I had faith and of course, meeting Jason I realized that GOD's timing is perfect timing. He is absolutely the best husband and I would never want to be with out him. So to all of you on Valentine's Day, I wish you all love and peace. Whether you have someone or not, it really doesn't matter because life doesn't start when you have a mate, it starts when you have a passion for following GOD. That is the true journey. GOD Bless and Happy Valentine's Day.

MR

January 14th, 2010: "Its what you don't see...."

As we learn more devastating news from the earthquake in Haiti, many of us are charging at the chance to help. Most of us, living in the United States, are more likely to help financially seeing as how there is no way for civilians to travel there to help a relief effort. Financial help is a tremendous offering that helps more than you know. When tragedy hits people uncover a compassionate, giving, and loving side that our busy lives tend to hide. Its easy to uncover those things when we see heartbreaking images and hear tales of sorrow coming from a tragedy. What if we didn't see or hear anything, but a tragedy was going on outside our door?

As we look for ways to help the many beautiful people in Haiti, I ask that we look right outside our door and find way to help our beautiful people in our community as well. There are many people in our community that need our help everyday. We shouldn't just uncover our giving side when a tragedy strikes because many tragedies are going on everyday in our community. As a blogger, in my own blog I feel I should speak about this. I will have links at the bottom of this page for ways you can not only help in Haiti but in your own community as well.

My thoughts in prayers go out to the many people in Haiti and in my community as well. GOD Bless.

MR

* TEXT "YELE" to "501501" and a donation of $5 will be made to the YELE Org. Wyclef Jean's Haiti relief.

* TEXT "HAITI" to "90999" and a donation of $10 will be given to the RED CROSS in support of their Haiti relief org.

* Visit your local Red Cross office to find out how you can help in your community.

* Visit local shelters to find out how your donation could help in your community.

*Contact local school officials for ways you can help improve your community schools.

*Visit your city's web site to find out how you can donation to a local family in need.

January 12th, 2010: "Letting them know"

As a female with a decent social life and something to do all the time, when you get married some of your friends feel that you may not want to hang out with them as much anymore. I know some girls do that. Even when they have a boyfriend they drop their friends like flies. Other times, your friends feel like is their duty to "step back" and give you and yours some time to yourselves. I can say that my husband and I, spend a lot of time together experiencing a life that is just ours now. But I recently came to realize that, my friends were stepping back because they figured thats what I wanted. I had to let them know that without them, my life wasn't complete. Yes, things change after you get married, but it changes for good. At least in my case it did and I didn't just keep my friends around before I got married just to bide my time until I got married.

I think it all depends on being able to balance your time with friends, family, and your husband. Again communication is key. If I hadn't let my friends know how I felt, we all would have went on missing each other. Because I missed them, and they missed me. No one should just be wrapped up in just one things. GOD gave us people and experiences and we should grow from that. Keep them always and be thankful for them.

This is just one more bit of knowledge I have learned from being a newlywed. I'll continue to blog them as I experience them!

MR

January 4th, 2010: "Crossroads"

I am at a crossroad because I could continue what I am doing, even though the fire is out of it and has lost its desire for completion, or I could embark on something brand new and exciting. What ever I choose I have most certainly devoted prayer my de lima. My only fear being the new and exciting prospect may soon turn into something that has lost its fire as well. I'm not a simple person, I have many desires for what I want my life to be. Its great because I have a lot of options, and even though I have accomplished a lot on my journey, nothing yet has sat me down for a long involvement yet.

GOD has blessed my life and my desire is to do something with this life. I know I will make something of my life but I need to talk with the LORD and go where he guides me. For anyone to do anything is worthless if the LORD is not guiding it.

It is funny when for many days you have a plan and then something happens that flips it all around. You then try to pick up the pieces and put them in a new order. I pray that GOD orders the pieces in my life. I will be in constant prayer today. Sitting silently where I can to reach an answer. It may not come today or anytime soon but it will come on GODs time and I would rather be on HIS time than mine. I will pray that I not become frustrated or negative, for this time may get stressful. I have a gift of turning situations that are worrisome into exciting times, so with that, I will stray away form any negativity and make this an exciting new time.

I guess its important to add that we all are on a journey that never stops until our life does. We just need to make sure we learn something along the way.

MR

December 24th 2009: "Finding the Movement"

It is Christmas Eve, and its so hard to believe that it is already here. It will be the first Christmas for Jason and I. We did not even know each other this time last year. Looking back, I could not have imagined being married to the man of my dreams this time last year. It just goes to show you, that you never know what is behind every corner. Anything could happen. Ha!

"Finding the Movement" is more than just the name of my blog. It has been a way of life for me. Finding what I can jump to next. Or what I can learn about and some day be. Its almost a mental process. With all the many times I have found myself "Finding the Movement" none was more rewarding than understanding how important my SAVIOR has been in my life. Guiding me, giving me strength, and providing undying love in my life. A sense of PEACE that could never be replaced. For every season, I am "Finding the Movement". What's yours?

Apple cider is on my stove, Christmas lights are lit, and Holiday music is playing. Yes it is Christmas Eve and I am over joyed with all the blessings GOD has bestowed upon me. No matter how bad or good, there is always a Blessing inside. May you all be Blessed in this season of your life and I pray that we all actively purse a greater meaning. Merry Christmas!

MR

Decemebr 21, 2009: "First Day"

I love to write. There is so much a person can express when simply writing it down. That is why I wanted to start a blog.

I married the man GOD made for me on October 10th, 2009. I am indeed a newlywed and my desire is to record this journey of my new life grows every day. This is the time in my life where things are drastically changing. I feel a strong desire to remember these days and reflect on them often. Good and bad, my thoughts will be recorded. I will maintain a level of privacy, but I also want to be as honest and open as I can be on my blog. Allowing GOD to lead my spirit and mind, I think starting out 2010 with my blog: "Finding the Movement" will be a wonderful experience that I, along with my readers, will definitely enjoy.

With that being said, I will bid you goodnight and begin thinking about my next post. I'll explain exactly what "Finding the Movement" means. Till then, Good night!

MR